The Untold Story Of Fathers

I would like to thank the President for his speech last week My Brother's Keeper.  The President was transparent when he stated how upset he was growing up without his dad in the home.  It is very easy to spew facts about the affects of fatherless households, it is also easy to blame the so called deadbeat dad.  Any man who walks away from his responsibilities should rethink that choice. 

     There is an untold story of fathers being frustrated having to co-parent with evil, vile, and vindictive women.  Where is the discussion of fathers who provide financial support yet when the mother is upset she can deny his visitation rights and the only hope a father has is attempting to go to court.  A father having to co-parent with a baby momma is the real epidemic not necessarily the father not being in the home.

     For two months I have been attempting to secure a passport for my son but of course I need consent from his mom.  I have sent emails and even a certified letter.  In  my emails I explained how I would like my son to travel the world and if possible during the summer months live in different countries to learn different languages and learn about different cultures.  I picked up my son this past Wednesday at our designated location.  I gave the passport consent forms to her brother.  I called her on Friday February 28th to ask her if she received the forms.  Her response "I ain't signing no motherfucking papers for no fucking passport."  I said "OK" and hung up the phone.
She left me a voicemail with her reasoning.  Now you would think she would be in fear of me kidnapping my son, or global terrorism.  Basically this woman wants our communication to be phone calls only, I told her that will not work because she uses profanity when discussing the child and if I ask her for information about our son she avoids all questions.  I was calling about a passport and she is talking about us talking on the phone.  I am world traveled, I have even lived in a different counrty, I am just a father wanting to share that experience with his son

Fathers if you are denied a healthy request.

1.  Get your game plan from God.
Only God can give you the best game plan for peace.
2. Document all experiences.
Document everything to find the best strategy that works
3. Never argue with a baby momma
Baby Mommas love to argue, don't give them the satisfaction holding your tongue is more powerful than, responding
4. Stay the course
What ever course you and God set, stay on path, stay on message, and stay in purpose.  It should always be about the best interest of the child.

                                                                              By: J.R.'S SON