What Is The Purpose For Child Support?

Every state has different child support laws; I happen to live in Texas where 20% of the non-custodial parent’s income goes towards the first child. My son is three years old and I currently pay 0 dollars in child support, yea that is right I said currently meaning I was paying. Like Floyd Mayweather is undefeated in boxing, I am undefeated, 1 and 0 vs. baby mommas. Real women and real mothers should be appreciated and supported for the dedication, baby mommas should consider getting their tubes tied and quit with "The 18yr Hustle."

I spoke with a very close personal friend last night who shared a personal experience he had with a single mom he dated. He was dating this particular mother and she told him that she wanted to quit her job and further her education. He thought that was awesome until she revealed her plan. Her plan was to quit her job, and go to the attorney general's office and ask for an increase in child support, so the Father could cover her expenses. My friend told me he called her the next day and terminated the relationship with this young lady. He said that the Father was a good Father and he could not believe her diabolical plan against him, all legal I might add. In Texas every couple of year’s custodial parents have the right by law to ask an increase in support. I commend my friend for ending his relationship with her.

I remember filling child support on myself a couple of years back because I felt I was being extorted, I simply wanted a fair deal and attempt to remove my sons mom from my ears and my pocket. In the attorney generals office in Houston, Texas I was ready, the lady behind the desk explained to me in so many words that child support reimburses the custodial parent for expenses such as food, clothing, and shelter. Well that is fine I mean married men pay 100% so what is a fair number for unmarried men? But the real issue that baby momma's are spending the money on hair, nails, and Usher tickets. The support is not directly going to the children, in some cases it is even going towards the new boyfriend.

I want to thank two mothers in particular whom I know personally Chasta Winslow and Nadia Green. They both are true examples of what motherhood is about, they understand that GOD is the real source and not running to the system to destroy men. I salute both of you. To be clear I am not saying child support is wrong but rather are baby momma's concerned with the best interest of the child or the best interest of their pockets. Are baby momma's good financial stewards?

The whole system needs to be revamped, how would you change child support laws?

My Challenge to Baby Momma's

1. Get off the bullshit stop running to the courts for increases in child support when the support is clearly not for the child.

2. If you happen to have an involved Father, get out of your feelings if the man does not want to be in a relationship with you and let him be a Father. (Stop interfering with his visitation)

3. If you are lucky enough to have a child by a good man, until you are mentally fit give the child to the Father. In my experience Fathers want to be involved but the courts limit access.

Baby Momma's need Fathers but Fathers need to be involved with the children and in most cases a real Father does not need a baby momma.